Symbol- He must become worthy of her. She wants to become worthy of him

Meaning- He gives her the key

He has benefited from his platonic friendships with other females. He has learned to be relaxed and comfortable around them and learned some of the things they are interested in.

He learns what they are attracted to in a man and can use that knowledge to make himself more attractive to the opposite sex. He is beginning to understand what a healthy relationship would be like.

He wishes that one of his platonic friendships would become more sexual in nature but it doesn’t. This creates a slight tension in his friendships that he doesn’t really know how to deal with. He would like a more serious relationship with her but she is content with things just the way they are. They are good friends and that is enough.

To her relationships have always been a roller coaster ride. At first she was on the top of the world and felt like a real queen. Everyone treated her so nice and did things for her. She actually began to believe she was as good as her dates said she was. She began to take advantage of them and abuse the relationship.

Later she took men away from other girls and fought to date the most popular men. Then these men began to dump her and she was left alone with no one interested in her.

It was all so intense and so uncontrolled. She enjoys her conversations with her platonic male friends. They are casual and relaxed. She can be her self and say what she really feels without worrying about others getting the wrong idea about her.

These platonic relationships have a stability and comfort she enjoys. Earlier she would have thought them boring. She is beginning to look for stability and comfort in her relationships.

The popular men that always have to be the center of attention now annoy her. They all seem so fake and shallow. She is looking for someone with real inner strength and a strong sense of self.

Male experience:

He enjoys his platonic friendships with other females. He is able to feel relaxed and comfortable around them. He is starting to understand the opposite sex and what they like in a man. He is able to make himself more attractive to them and is well liked.

He is somewhat frustrated because he would like a more sexual relationship but his female friends are not really interested in serious relationships right now, at least not with him. They would rather have him as a friend than as a romantic interest.

Female experience:

Her new platonic male friends are real comforting to be around after the stresses of more serious relationships. She likes the stability and the relaxed atmosphere. After so much excitement it feels good to just slow down for a while and feel comfortable around males.

She learns a lot by just being friends. Maybe men are not really the jerks she thinks they are. At least, maybe some of them are not jerks. She is drawn to the more quiet types that have a strong inner strength and a depth that her other dates didn’t have. These men are not trying to get in her pants all the time. They actually are interested in what she thinks and in what she has to say.

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symbol- He must have more female mental energy. She must have more male mental energy.

Meaning- join forces

He must have more female energy to gain the realistic global perspective he needs to achieve his goals. Her energy helps him to see more clearly.

At the time she created her own astral future she created his potential future too. He has been locked into stereotyped roles that both she and society demand he act out.

He has been trapped by how society perceives him and can’t achieve his own goals. He can only achieve socially approved goals.

By absorbing more of her energy he can take that pure energy into the astral in dreams and change his future. He does this by absorbing the negative aspects into his body and replacing them with pure energy.

This is a cut and paste operation and very time consuming. It also requires tremendous amounts of energy because he is trying to alter society’s expectations of him. The best he can do is to achieve his goals by following socially approved routes such as job training and work experience. He is forced to compromise.

To get more energy he socializes with other females. He has female friends he can talk to and socialize with. Dating is not important to him at this time. He is learning to conform to societies’ demands and society gradually rewards him for his efforts.

She isn’t dating anyone now and it is a refreshing change of pace. She is transmuting sexual energy into mental energy fairly easily and needs some male energy to combine with it. With the combined energy she can create a new future for herself that is more complete and carefully thought out than her last try.

Her best bet is to find males that can easily generate mental energy just as she can. She is looking for platonic friendships and not for romantic attachments.

Both of them are just looking for someone easy to talk to and someone that is just a friend. Conversations become more meaningful than dating does. The energy flows easily between them and many good conversations are the result.

They both learn a lot about the opposite sex and about relationships in general. This is an easy, relaxed time for both of them and pleasant in an easy going way.

Male experience:

He is freely generating mental energy now and requires a large quantity of female energy to combine with it. He is using this combined energy to alter how society perceives him. He is conforming to the rules of society in his efforts toward achieving his personal goals.

He socializes with females and becomes platonic friends with them. He is more interested in good conversation than he is in a relationship. He is relaxed around them and enjoys himself.

Female experience:

She is freely generating mental energy now and requires a large amount of male energy to combine with her own to produce astral energy. She uses this energy to create new futures for herself that are more realistic than her first efforts. She is not very interested in social roles or what society expects of her and is still in this respect a rebel.

She enjoys good conversations with males and develops platonic friendships. She is not really interested in romantic relationships. She enjoys talking to males with radical points of view that differ from the norm. She tends to be a political activist.

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symbol- He is a wimp. She is a shrew

Meaning- Loss of innocence

As his personality and sense of self become more developed his behavior changes. Instead of acting out social roles like the football star, the cowboy, the rebel, or even the nerd, he begins to act as himself.

Just being himself is very gratifying and he isn’t trying to prove anything to anyone. People can take him or leave him just as he is. He has found a source of inner strength within that no one can take from him.

He doesn’t really stand out from the crowd anymore. In fact, he kind of blends into the background most of the time. If circumstances demand he will take command in an emergency but he prefers to let others have the spotlight. He feels no need to be the life of the party anymore or the center of attention.

She doesn’t understand or even recognize his newfound inner strength. All she knows is that he isn’t the big man and center of attention he used to be. He has become a wimp in her eyes and she despises what she sees as weakness in him.

She is ruled by her emotions at this point but beginning to transmute sexual energy into mental energy. She is beginning to realize she has been used and discarded.

This awareness brings resentments and she is quick to voice her accusations. She becomes a real shrew. She is developing a bad attitude toward men and they are beginning to avoid her. They would much rather be with more sweet tempered females. This avoidance makes her even angrier. She wants to have fun but no one can stand to be around her much less to date her.

She fights to retain her place in the limelight. She attacks those that are now the popular ones and tries to undermine their popularity. This is a loosing battle because people would rather be around positive individuals than be around negative individuals and she has become quite negative.

Male experience:

He has found a source of inner strength and sense of self. He doesn’t have to prove anything to anyone any more and blends into the background. He wants to find his true path in life and start his life’s work. He is ready to get on with life and leave childish games behind.

He quietly and without fan fare begins working to achieve his goals in life regardless of what others think or say. He is committing himself to a major course of action.

Female experience:

She wants to enjoy the limelight and be the center of attention but that is behind her now. The popular dream date has dumped her for someone else. Where she used to take men away from other girls, now they take her men away from her.

The popular guys are not interested in her anymore. They think she is turning into a shrew and not fun to be around. She is beginning to develop a bad attitude toward men. She thinks they are all wimps because they can’t stand up to the force of her personality.

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